Our children deserve the best. Our most important role in parenting is teaching our children to live a Godly lifestyle. Teach your children right from wrong, and when they are grown they will still do right. (Prv 22:6) http://ht.ly/leKMH
Realise meeting the needs of others is serving Christ (Matthew 25:40)
We should be willing to meet the needs of others. (Matthew 23:11-12)
As we know God better, learn to trust Him and share what we learn with others we also learn to accept the things we cannot change, identify the things we can and change and take action on changing them.
Recovery begins when we discover our helplessness, it continues with honest self-examination and continuous dependence on God.