Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church. Ephesians 5:21-23
Building and rebuilding relationships is one of the most important tasks we will be required to carry out in recovery. Learning to love my wife (who has been in Church all of her life) was one of the most difficult parts of the recovery process for me. Thankfully when God gives us a task He also equips us to carry it out.