Romans 14:12 You’ve got your hands full just taking care of your own life before God.
Step six is about trusting God to change our bad habits. That requires honesty and taking responsibility for the things we have done.
Recovery is about taking responsibility. Where we are now had nothing to do with our circumstances, our upbringing or anything anyone else has done to us. Where we are now is about how we reacted to those things.
Recovery is about learning new ways of reacting when things don’t go our way.
What or who have you blamed for your current situation?