The Bible says “None of us is perfectly qualified. We get it wrong nearly every time we open our mouths. If you could find someone whose speech was perfectly true, you’d have a perfect person, in perfect control of life.” James 3:2 Step One says “I admit that my life is a mess and I am out of control.”
When we admit and accept we are out of control we realize we need help outside of ourselves to regain control. The help we need is not human help but Holy Spirit help.
It’s time for Step TWO