Ephesians 5:10 Figure out what will please Christ, and then do it.
Recovery is about developing good-moral character. Which is possible only with God’s help. Knowing God’s standards is not enough. We have to live them. As human beings, we are all prone to failure because it is human nature to live by our own standards.
One of the things I did as part of my step four list was to include in it God’s standards of right living. What I ended up with was a list o direction for changing my defects. What I did with that list in steps five and six was to get along with it and God and pray for God-pleasing change.
When was the last time you reviewed your step four list and asked God to help you change?